A New Year…

January 11th, 2008 by Hafsa

The first of Muharram came and went and there was barely a ripple in most of our lives. There were no telephone calls wishing people happy new year, no mass email messages celebrating the advent of a new set of dates, no new year’s resolutions…really, nothing significant to mark the start of the 1429 year of the hijri calender.

This silence, at the heels of the commotion surrounding the gregorian new year, is disconcerting. The month of January actually has very little signficance. Minus the fact that it means slower sales, greater line-ups on the return/exchange counters and generally dull weather, the month really has very little to offer by way of importance.

On the other hand,  the month of Muharram has tremendous significance.  Prophet (SAW) is recorded as having referred to it as the “Month of Allah” signifying its value and importance. According to Imam Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali, it is the best of months after Ramadan for voluntary fasts. It is especially recommended that we fast on the 10th of Muharram, the day of Ashura and on the 9th OR 11th. Many prophets before Prophet Muhammad (SAW), including Prophet Nuh and Prophet Musa used to fast on this day.  Abd Allah ibn `Amr ibn al-`As (Allah be pleased with him), reported that the Prophet (SAW) said that “Whoever fasts `Ashura’ it is as if he has fasted the entire year. And whoever gives charity this day it is like the charity of an entire year.”

It is my hope and prayer that we are able to take advantage of this blessed day, this blessed month and the amazing opportunites for forgiveness and reward from Allah (SWT).

Happy New Year!

P.S: A wonderful article on the importance of the month of Muharram can be found at the following link.   

Lament for Seville

January 7th, 2008 by Hafsa

I watched the PBS documentary Cities of Light: The Rise and Fall of Islamic Spain, back in August 2007. I think that Thawrat ash Sha’ab has a good summary of the highs and lows of the documentary. I would definitely recommend the documentary to those who want a glimpse of the Islamic empire in Spain. However, what really touched me in the video was the reference to the poem called the “Lament for Seville” which was composed by Abu Baqa’ al-Rundi in 1267 to bewail the fall of the city of Seville. It is a heart-breaking poem, and a lasting reminder of what we as Muslims lost in the fall of that once amazing Islamic empire.

His words are just as relevant in today’s religio-political atmosphere as they were in 1285. They are a cry to waken the dormant spirits of Muslims everywhere. They are meant to bring tears to the eyes and light a fire in the heart. They act as a reminder that we have a legacy of greatness that deserves preservation. Indeed, given the condition of Muslims today, “Even the mihrabs weep though they are solid; even the pulpits mourn though they are wooden!” (Al-Rundi)

Poetry was the mass media of the middle ages. Through this once lofty pursuit of information and art, we have a glimpse of the pain that accompanied the fall of Islamic Spain. It is a very hard heart indeed that reads the words below without feeling that pain of loss and lamenting. just a little, the loss of Seville.

The poem was translated by James T. Monroe and historically, is believed to have been composed in “the hope of gaining aid from Muslims in North Africa to help battle Christian armies. Although the fall of Seville is its theme, the text was actually written in 1267, after the Nasrid ruler Muhammad ibn al-Ahmar surrendered several cities to Alfonso X.” It is a fairly lengthy poem and I will only reproduce the latter half. For the full translation in English, the original Arabic text, as well as more information about this work and the ancient Arabian and Persian references found within, please visit the following website.

The Lament for Seville .

  • For the accidents [of fortune] there is a consolation that makes them easy to bear, yet there is no consolation for what has befallen Islam.

  • An event which cannot be endured has overtaken the peninsula; one such that Uhud has collapsed because of it and Thahlan has crumbled!

  • The evil eye has struck [the peninsula] in its Islam so that [the land] decreased until whole regions and districts were despoiled of [the faith]

  • Therefore ask Valencia what is the state of Murcia; and where is Jativa, and where is JaÙ‰n?

  • Where is Cordoba, the home of the sciences, and many a scholar whose rank was once lofty in it?

  • Where is Seville and the pleasures it contains, as well as its sweet river overflowing and brimming full?

  • [They are] capitals which were the pillars of the land, yet when the pillars are gone, it may no longer endure!

  • The tap of the white ablution fount weeps in despair, like a passionate lover weeping at the departure of the beloved,

  • Over dwellings emptied of Islam that were first vacated and are now inhabited by unbelief;

  • In which the mosques have become churches wherein only bells and crosses may be found.

  • Even the mihrabs weep though they are solid; even the pulpits mourn though they are wooden!

  • 0 you who remain heedless though you have a warning in Fate: if you are asleep, Fate is always awake!

  • And you who walk forth cheerfully while your homeland diverts you [from cares], can a homeland beguile any man after [the loss of] Seville?

  • This misfortune has caused those that preceded it to be forgotten, nor can it ever be forgotten for the length of all time!

  • 0 you who ride lean, thoroughbred steeds which seem like eagles in the racecourse;

  • And you who carry slender, Indian blades which seem like fires in the darkness caused by the dust cloud [of war],

  • And you who are living in luxury beyond the sea enjoying life, you who have strength and power in your homelands,

  • Have you no news of the people of Andalus, for riders have carried forth what men have said [about them]?

  • How often have the weak, who were being killed and captured while no man stirred, asked our help?

  • What means this severing of the bonds of Islam on your behalf, when you, 0 worshipers of God, are [our] brethren?

  • Are there no heroic souls with lofty ambitions; are there no helpers and defenders of righteousness?

  • 0, who will redress the humiliation of a people who were once powerful, a people whose condition injustice and tyrants have changed?

  • Yesterday they were kings in their own homes, but today they are slaves in the land of the infidel!

  • Thus, were you to see them perplexed, with no one to guide them, wearing the cloth of shame in its different shades,

  • And were you to behold their weeping when they are sold, the matter would strike fear into your heart, and sorrow would seize you.

  • Alas, many a mother and child have been parted as souls and bodies are separated!

  • And many a maiden fair as the sun when it rises, as though she were rubies and pearls,

  • Is led off to abomination by a barbarian against her will, while her eye is in tears and her heart is stunned.

  • The heart melts with sorrow at such [sights], if there is any Islam or belief in that heart!

  • The Return…

    January 6th, 2008 by Hafsa

    Often, upon the return of someone, the joy is celebrated in killing the fattened calf, at least linguistically speaking. This expression has found its way into modern lexicon, whether it is used in a positive joyous manner or more sarcastic meanings. This concept of killing the fattened calf actually derives from a biblical parable Gospel of Luke 15:11-32.

    The story itself is pretty interesting. A father has two sons, one son leaves and squanders his wealth while the other stays by his father’s side and cares for him and his business. Eventually, the younger son returns whereupon the father welcomes him with open arms and kills the fattened calf for the feast. The older son is understandably upset and his father tells him that “My son, you are always with me, and everything I have is yours. But we had to celebrate and be glad, because this brother of yours was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found. ” (Luke 15:31-32).

    The underlying meaning may be that it is important to celebrate the return of those who are lost back to the fold, whether it be the fold of family, religion, community or other. Hadithuna was intended as a community network for Muslims whereupon the voices and ideas of Muslims around the world would have an open forum. It is to this amazing community I hope to initiate a return and remain active in blogging. I do not expect a fattened calf since I am but an insignificant servant of the Almighty!

    Roundtable Disappointment

    February 21st, 2007 by Hafsa

    Last week, I attended a Round-table discussion organized by the EKOS Research group and sponsored by the Cross-Cultural Round-table for Security (CCRS). As a student with lots of ideas and strong opinions on the state of security in Canada, the issue of politics involving the Muslim community and the marginalization of the said community, I went in prepared for a high level of intellectual discourse and problem-solving strategies. I was ready to learn more about how CSIS, the RCMP and CBSA and the Department of Justice operate and to use that information towards building a more comprehensive strategy when it comes to dealing with various issues involving Muslims, and more broadly, involving other Canadians- our neighbors, coworkers and friends.

     I have never been more disappointed or mortified in my life as I was that day!  First of all, the ratio of adults to youth was strongly skewed. Over all, there were perhaps 5 students in a round-table gathering of 50+ people. Secondly, the ratio was awfully biased towards the South Asian and Middle Eastern community. There were perhaps 10 Caucasian and other ethnic minorities. And as expected, it was members of the South Asian and Middle Eastern communites who dominated the discussion. I wouldn’t have had a problem with that except rather than any productive thoughts and ideas, what was shared were bitter accusations and silly conjecture. It almost appeared as though the Round-table discussion was a free-for-all opportunity for these people to a) show off how politically connected and informed they were, b) lament their personal grievances against their own community (i.e. “My community calls me an apostate.”) or c) viciously attack the agency’s representative and hold them responsible for all their personal grievances. In truth, the experience made me realize the truth behind the stereotypical character of Babur in Little Mosque on the Prairie.

    I am a big fan of freedom of speech and respect for everyone. However, at the end of the discussion, I wanted to go apologize to the representatives of CSIS, RCMP and CBSA. I am not an apologist. I strongly feel that there are certain issues that need to be resolved if we are to continue thriving as a nation and as a community. However, the sheer lack of etiquette and tact exercised by members of my own community left me thoroughly ashamed. Rather than working with these agencies towards a mutual goal, we were too busy hurling accusations at them and each other. Instead of coming across as a community that is knowledgeable, eloquent and politically aware, we presented ourselves as ignorant yet pompously verbose individuals. I realize that some of you may be thinking that I am being too harsh but the reality of the matter is that there were times an individual would stand up and start talking (this was during Q&A) and by the time they finished, I had no idea what they had initially started off asking. Comments, meant to be brief, were turned into 20 minute long speeches that had virtually no relevance to the topics at hand.

    The Round-table experience made me realize just how important it is for the Muslim students across Canada and North America to raise their voices, to stop letting others speak for them. In retrospect, I didn’t do that at the discussion, simply because it was easier to sit there and be stupefied by the intellectual deficiency in the room than participate and have someone start screaming at me. And that, as everything else, was yet another disappointment in the round-table saga…

    6 Month Lessons

    February 1st, 2007 by Hafsa

    This past Monday was my 6 month wedding anniversary. Now, if you’re anything like my husband, you’ll look at me weirdly and say, “who celebrates that?” but for me, it was an important milestone. We had been together half a year, gotten through the bad times and enjoyed lots of good ones. Here are the 6 main lessons I learned in my six months of marriage!

    1- You will NEVER know a guy completely until you have lived with him, travelled with him and he has been sick around you.

    2- Patience may be a virtue in most life situations, but in marriage, it is absolutely ESSENTIAL if don’t want to spend life in jail for homicide.

    3- You MUST respect each other in all ways possible because it will open doors for compromise, which is the lifeblood, the backbone and air-supply of every marriage.

    4- Forgiveness is MANDATORY! You cannot and must not hold grudges with each other!

    5- Communication is KEY! This may sound like alliteration (of sorts) but you must be able to share your feelings and discuss your problems until you arrive at a reasonable conclusion (which is generally doing things my way).

    While most of my above points can be found in self-help books titled along the lines of “How to Save your Marriage” or the “Guide to a Healthy Marriage,” you’ll probably not find this elsewhere and more than likely, this will be the most beneficial for you…

    6- In Islam, marriage is fulfilling half your deen and your love for your spouse should stem from your love for Allah (SWT). I learned that praying with my husband, learning about our deen together and sharing other devotional practices brought us so much closer together and strengthened us in our love for our Lord, our deen and for each other.

    Disclaimer: While everyone is encouraged to try this at home, the author cannot truthfully claim to be a full-time adherent of the aforementioned practices.